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The Battle of what you know vs what you feel ...



It's so funny the many challenges that we have in life on a daily basis.  As soon as one thing is over here comes another thing.  As soon as we figure something out there is always another problem to solve.  With that being said are the problems really even problems? Sometimes it is the choices we made that just resulted in problems.  






As we go through life we begin to realize our choices are led by our hearts or our brains.  Most of the time the emotional pull of situations lead us to make choices with our hearts.  However, those choices we make with our brains they keep us from a lot of heartbreak and a lot of wasted time.  Time.... isn't it the golden ticket?  Its literally the one thing we always wish we had more of and its literally the one thing that people and yourself included waste on the most stupid trivial shit.  And sometimes that time isn't really wasted of course its the epic learning experiences that we all must go through.  To be honest I would really love to fast forward or skip all of the heartfelt choices that led me to waste my time and energy because some lessons are just way to much stress to learn.  


A lot of motivational speakers would tell me it builds character to go through the tough times. Do it with my chin up and learn what's being taught via the universe.  Humans to me are very emotional creatures our egos in this day and age are disgusting.  Everyone thinks they deserve it all.  And to be fair we do.  People deserve to have an awesome life experience.  Everyone deserves to begin their life in a good place.  Whatever a good place means to you becasue we all have a different perspective on what good means to them.  

This blog is simply about Choices :  the ones we make with our hearts and the ones we make with logic using our brains. I have been to jail before making decisions using my heart .

A lot of people want the safe bet right? Choices and decisions can be some of the most difficult and stressful things we have to do. With that being said choosing things can completely alter your entire life.  That’s why sometimes it takes so long for people to make decisions about really serious things happening in their life. People play about those relationships but trust me those choices can completely alter your entire life. 

So the question remains choosing with heart or choosing with mind?? 


There just paths and choices. Sometimes it’s just the way our lives begin because of the choices our families have made in the past. That’s why we have to make decisions and choices that always lead to a better future even if it’s not going to be your future it may be your bloodlines future. Time can be tricky and it can definitely be the one thing we all wish we had more of. Well that was it a thought out loud,  about time and choices and decisions and that is how we have this thing called Life. ✌🏾 Choose wisely my friends….. 



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