What do People Want?

Sometimes I ask myself this question, well to be fair I ask myself this question a lot more than not. In the midst of everything you realize everyone wants something different. I have heard psychologist say everyone wants to be loved but do they really! Or when they say just simple things like everyone wants to be surrounded by good people. Does everyone really want to be rich?

I honestly don't believe everyone wants the same things as we think. It’s like the moment you think everyone wants to be happy but at the same time they are drinking themselves to death. Maybe they have their favorite fast food and they love it and even though it’s not nutritional, it’s simply processed food that’s what they want! And to be honest most people know what alcohol does to them but if they want it they want it . PERIODT

I've learned in life what people want is what they want sometimes they want it because someone else had it. Sometimes they want it because they couldn't have it. Sometimes they want it because it's all they have ever known. But one thing is for sure when you want something you stick to it until you get it, or you really never wanted it at all. Sometimes you want it just to say you had it and once you have it you don't want it anymore. Humans are so strange, and I don't think I'll ever understand but everyday I'm almost certain every human asks themselves What do I want!!??

Happy Adulting,

Arabia’s Thoughts ✌🏽

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