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When You Think You Know It All

 Most people won't read this one.  Do you know why? Probably because they think they know it all lol!!! When starting anything new have you ever noticed ever one has advice even the people who have not even attempted what you are about to do.  When you start a business someone who has never had one wants to tell you all the things about how to start and what you need to do.  When you are starting school, a person could have literally only got their GED and yet they know about all the things this college you are attending is going to be like. You don't cook lasagna, but you have reason to believe you can tell them the best sauces and exactly how long it needs to be cooked.  Never surfed a day in your life but you have all the information on what it takes to ride the waves. 


 

Okay you get it, and you may also be saying I can still know about things I have never done, because the truth is people research and read. People become experts on all sorts of things they have never actually done.  However, to be fair no one really wants to take advice about being an investor from someone who has never really invested.  Also, a big one we all do is if you have never been in a healthy relationship, but you insist on giving out relationship advice.  I always use to listen to all of my friends tell me about how to handle my bad relationships and they didn't even have a healthy relationship with a man.  Why do we do this? Maybe because we can't afford therapy ☝ It took me years to realize venting is one thing but people telling you exactly what you should say, what to do, how to react. That is a whole other thing and to be honest you make things worse when you take advice from people who have no idea what they are talking about.  Another scenario is How much money to start with or what licenses you need to be in a legitimate business situation, but your person with the advice has never had a personal account or uses only a cash app card for their card transactions. But I know I am in no position to give out business advice.  Also, no judgment I have a cash app card, but I also have a bank account. I'm the first person to say Google my brother can be your best friend when you need answers and of course not for everything though.  Like you can't google how to interpret the argument you had with your boyfriend.  I mean you can, but it is not going to give you what you really need to answer everything on such a personal level.



It took me a long time to realize a lot of people in the world just love to hear themself talk.  They literally don't know anything about the subject, but they love to appear intelligent, and they love to think they are giving people advice. It's not wrong to want to help people but when you don't know something the best thing you can really do and what really earns trust is saying I have no idea. To blatantly say I honestly just don't know.  When you think you know it all you can be a detriment to others and yourself. So, when you do know something please give me all the information you know on the said subject but when you don't know please just be honest and say I don't know you definitely don't have to know it all and believe no one likes a know it all anyways. 

Signing off in the beast Heat of JULY. Just A few thoughts I had to say Out Loud!!


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