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The Grind

 Well, its super obvious that I should be talking about the grind.  Especially since I haven't posted since damn near January.  I had my Grand Opening for my Permanent Makeup Microblading studio in Atlanta and I have been Bartending in Midtown!! Yay to me getting shit done right!!💙 But honestly inflation has been an absolute Bitch!  I feel like I am constantly on the move, and I know everyone else is no stranger to this life of go go go!! 



I sometimes just want to give back to those less fortunate than me.  Its interesting to me that finding the time to even do noble things has been hard lately.  Its definitely a time thing.  To be honest if there was one thing I could do it would be volunteer, but I am literally trying to understand how do the laws of the land insist we just run around paying bills all the time this is the most mindless thing I can think of to enforce on a society.  Working to be able to eat and pay bills.  I am not sad about the grind nor do I think it's something completely stupid.  Working builds character and I have learned so much in the past few months than I have ever learned.  Life is all about perspective.  When it seems like the grind is too much, I have been shifting my perspective to see it in a different light.  Sometimes to be fair that's really all we can do.  

I know some people think that could be lying to yourself pushing a concept that you don't naturally believe, right???  But  at the end of the day.  Mindset and the way we look at things is so important. Do you believe in manifesting? What do you think about our society? Is the grind something you resonate with? Talk to me y'all ! These are my thoughts out loud 💥

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