What about your friends????

So you know what sparked this life post!!! People!!! Literally people! People we call friends. People we call family. People we call lovers. I have yet to wrap my mind around territorial and jealous humans. People who say you can’t sit with us only because they want you all to themselves.

People who need to be the center of every conservation or better yet “why is the topic not ME. These people who see or hear you talking to someone else, and they lose their minds with jealousy. People who you don’t do anything to them, but they want to dismiss you and make you feel alienated. People who just think that you don’t belong.

People who show up for the event to secretly wish it doesn’t do well. Ahhhh they say you will entertain angels unaware, but the reverse can be true my friends you literally entertain the demons too. Y’all be safe!!! I was just thinking 💭 out loud.

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A Thought But Out Loud

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