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The Rules

 It’s so interesting how everything has rules even when we try to say we are not adhering to the ones setup. We typically are still playing by some kind of a rule that was set up through conditioning or environment. Like I can’t lie I have been married and I literally hated every minute of it. But because the status quo tells us it’s so great and it’s a romantic adventure shared between two people who love each other humans are literally sold on this idea of being with this someone forever.


The rules of bills and living and eating and maintaining a certain level of respect from others. The rules of being kind and just being social whew 😅 my hair has rules lol!!!

IG has rules , the way I wear my clothes has rules!!

So no wonder in the space of someone you care for and in the space of just being you , you just want to be free.

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