A Thought But Out Loud

  Most people won't read this one.  Do you know why? Probably because they think they know it all lol!!! When starting anything new have you ever noticed ever one has advice even the people who have not even attempted what you are about to do.  When you start a business someone who has never had one wants to tell you all the things about how to start and what you need to do.  When you are starting school, a person could have literally only got their GED and yet they know about all the things this college you are attending is going to be like. You don't cook lasagna, but you have reason to believe you can tell them the best sauces and exactly how long it needs to be cooked.  Never surfed a day in your life but you have all the information on what it takes to ride the waves.    Okay you get it, and you may also be saying I can still know about things I have never done, because the truth is people research and read. People become experts on all sorts of things they have never actu

Why is bad stuff happening to Meeee 😩 The big ugly question right??? And sometimes we ask this question and have literally not considered if it’s really as bad as we think . I’m not at all trying to downplay how upset you are , nor am I saying they are not bad things.     We truly have to look at everything from the beginning to end and then we can say how bad it really is. When you started your journey half the time things may be way worst when you start and then the middle of it all is not as bad but I think because we get laser focused on outcome that’s all we see . But we can’t help but ask why?  To be honest sometimes it’s for growth , sometimes for a lesson learned which kind of relates to growth when you are being taught lessons . Challenging times and being uncomfortable is literally the fucking worst but sometimes when  you get to the end and see how it all ties in to make you who you become I promise you it will be worth it . Even if it isn’t exactly the way you envisioned