A Thought But Out Loud

Secret Single Behavior lol!!! We all have it and if it's a secret behavior do, we really even want the people we love and spend time with to know about it.  Well, I know that I have my own secret single behavior, are you kidding me we all have it.  So, the biggest question is do we change it, or do we just trust the people we love with our weirdo behavior!!  Okay ya'll I know it doesn't   necessarily mean we are weird because it's a secret.  Maybe you just think they may judge you for it.  What if it's just something you know they don't agree with.  The thought of changing who you are because of it totally means you should maybe rethink your choice on who you are with.  We should feel comfortable with our mates but how long does it take to let your guard down.  How long before you truly can trust them with your secret single behavior?  I actually came up with this logic from an episode of Sex in the City.  I resonated with it so much because I know it's so t

I am sure you have heard that Balance in your life is so important. Everybody preaches to have balance in your life! Social Life and Work balance. Healthy foods and Junk food balance. Exercise or no exercise balance. Eating at home and eating out balance. Drinking alcohol and not drinking alcohol balance.  I am here today to confirm the importance of balance in your life. But ultimately you can decide if you need balance or if it’s just a bunch of fluff to add some affirmative motivation to your day!   The positive outcomes for creating balance in your life are below!!! 1. Simplifying your life, defining your priorities and decluttering the stuff in your home and life that removes you from truly living life, can give you space, time and freedom.  2. Building balanced relationships. Having people around you that you like, and trust is one of the best indicators of living a long life. If you are sacrificing relationships like these because you're working too hard, you're clearly

  Okay!!!  So, I know this title has everyone like I know she is not trying to speak on people with flaws when we all have them. Just keep in mind again I am venting on this paper and looking for any commentary on this topic.   The biggest reason I'm talking about this is that as a kid in middle school one of my best friends at the time was an attention whore and as we got older it just got worse.  It got so bad that for the past ten years we became distant associates who see each other on social media but never see each other like the friends we use to be. We grew apart and it was mainly because of this trait. One of the biggest things with people who carry this personality trait is that they don't care about the way people act or treat them. Also, they don't care how the people they seek attention from treat other people. They are just happy with being able to say they have lots of friends and people they know. Just whatever it takes to have as many people as possible tal